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Some good advice below. Be open with your pastor and board and ask them for some time away to rekindle, refresh, relax, re-energize. Faithfully take one day a week off, and some weeks add another one. REMEMBER...GOD & FAMILY first, church after.

Get away with your family and spend some time relaxing together, get away by yourself and spend some time reconnecting with GOD and allow HIM to fill your cup and drench you with his LOVE!

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Sounds like you might be doing to much "stuff." Talk to the other pastors, elders, older guys, whatever you call them and tell them what you're going through. Maybe get groups of guys to take turn tearing everything down so it's not the same people. Cut down what you're putting up. I'm with the others. If you hit the ground sprinting...you're gonna hit it with your face. Slow down. Don't neglet personal time with God. It sounds like your heart is in the right place but you're so bogged down that you keep looking at the tree and are missing the forest.Learn to say NO as well. I find that when I'm doing what God has called me to do, I don't burn out and am energized. When I do what everyone else tells or asks me to...I burnout quickly

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You are definitely getting a taste of "burnout"!! The other guys shared some great advice, so I'll keep mine short and to the point ;)

--Spend time with the Lord!
--Connect with somebody you can trust. Hopefully you can find some time with your senior pastor. Or you might just want to get real honest with a friend you really trust. But take the plunge and be willing to be deeply honest with someone about your struggles.
--Spend time with the Lord ;)

My heart goes out to you. Let me know if there is some way I can help.
nathaniel@calledtoym.com
440-220-5626

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I have and am experiencing it now. It is of the utmost importance that you do not go through this alone; I hope you can talk to and confide in your senior pastor. Tell them about it; they have to be the ones to support you and pray for you during this time. YOU MUST DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS NOW!!! I let this go on too long and now I am just numb. Pray about the whole everything bothering you thing. You will not be able to be effective dealing with that issue. Come against it and get help quick!!

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when i face burnout, i try to take some personal time. I began youth ministry sprinting and it rocked me.

if this really is something we're in for the long haul, we gotta go slow, take time when needed and do our best to share the burden (emotionally and physically). Thats what i try to do anyways-- get away for a bit (2-3 days) in which i focus on my own life, God and refuse to think of tasks of a ministry position.

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I've been at my church for 7 years, a volunteer for 6, and staff for the last 1 year. Until this previous fall, we rented a hotel each Sunday, being there from 6AM-2PM was a pretty regular thing for me to be doing, (on top of a full time and a 1/2 time job.)

Usually when I felt myself about to go into burnout, I would force myself to take the time to bury myself in worship music, just turn everything off (cell, e-mail, facebook,) and just try to focus on God. Pray, read, play guitar, whatever to just try and re-focus myself.

Thankfully, we now have our own building, and I have a lead pastor who is very conscious about not letting us reach burnout. Preventing it is much easier than recovering, although it still can be very hard