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Girls class where an adult female explains the reality of guys' eyes. Parent session where you or your pastor or paid speaker talks about teen sexual issues including modesty.

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Have you ever met with the parents of your group as a whole? You may be able to drop hints if you met with the whole group next year around homecoming and/or prom time and talk about the importance of modesty in a culture and encourages students to bare all. I think we need to start partnering up with parents and helping them see what is going on in the youth culture and how to step up and lead their child. I think many parents are desiring to parent their kids...they're just clueless as how to do it.

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Have you addressed modesty with the group prior to this? If students don't understand the purpose for modesty in the first place, then they might comply at church because of assumed expectations, not because that's what's on their hearts. Even if you do discuss it with students, if their parents have different standards then they'll more likely go with the parents. It might be a good idea to bring this up with the parents even more so than with the students - not to call out the teens so much as to help the parents navigate what's appropriate and how to address it with their children.

We've done multiple sessions on modesty, particularly with the girls. It was also addressed at Revolve when our girls (including my "offenders") went to the conference a couple months ago.
As I've thought and prayed about this, I am convinced it really is a parent issue. With one of the girls, I am surprised that her parents bought her the dress and let her go out in it. (What makes it worse is that she went with a homeschooled boy and his mom is fit to be tied). Tempted to let his mom deal