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youth group advice help!!!!!
ok i asked a queston like a week ago about who a teen who lost her mom should talk to well the same exact teen started to cry during teen class she got up and left but if that happens again what should i do should i talk to her or like take over the class so the youth pastor can help please!!!!
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I agree that maybe you should talk with the Youth Pastor about what to do about it next time, but if I was the youth pastor, I'd prefer that you step out quietly to be with her. As a girl, you probably understand better than I do that most hurting girls just want to be heard, or just have someone sit there quietly with them as they mourn. |
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Ask the youth pastor in advance what He/She would like for you to do if that happens again. Be ready for whatever may come your way as loosing a parent can be really hard to deal with. If not yourself, find another female who is a strong Christian who can shepherd her and show her GOD'S love and mercy in her time of need. |
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I will agree with the previous posters, find another loving women who can help her. Someone to come along and mentor her, someone she can talk to without any complications or just someone to be there. Having lost a parent I can understand her grief and pain. This won't go away easily and we need to put our arms around the student rather than making it seem like something she is doing is wrong. |
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First, I suggest calming down about the whole situation. You seem very distraught about it, and I understand that the teen's mother passed away and that's a big deal, but 1) crying and being upset is normal and expected and 2) God's got it under control. |
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A "youth pastor" is not her answer. Go by what God's word instructs: |
