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Im a Brit, in the UK drinking is not a taboo. In fact the local pub (bar) is the centre of most communities so is you want to reach your community the local is the best place to start. In fact a lot of the YPs and parents I work with can be found in the pubs on a Friday/Saturday evening. Other then my own person issues, there is no cultural reasons for me not to drink.

 

Like one of the other guys, I'm a beer snob like some people are coffee snobs.
I love the taste of it but I drink it in moderation. I have friends who choose not to drink for varrious reasons and I respect that.
In Australia there isn't a massive issue in the church over the use of alcohol. But as a society there are huge issue with it's abuse and so I am careful in the example I set as a leader.

 

I'm a drinker. I'm actually a beer snob :) Haha. I think there's nothing wrong with it and neither does our denomination. I think the correlation of "not causing a brother to stumble" is within the context of me knowing a friend has a problem with alcohol, in that case, I distance myself from alcohol, bars, the whole 9 yards.
Otherwise, I'm actually pretty open about it too. The only thing culture gives are examples alcohol abuse, then we wonder why young people go crazy with it! I think the issue is not about the drink but about being responsible. And that should carry over into how we treat food, video games, money, etc.
So while I do drink, I do so to enjoy it like I do a fine dessert :) I do not drink to get drunk.

 

I have no problem with it. I won't have much, but I'll have a drink here and there. Certainly if you have a drinking problem, drink to avoid reality, or are around someone who may be tempted to drink if you do (and that person is also undecided how they feel about drinking or feels that it's wrong), then you obviously should not have that drink. The other big thing is that if you feel it's wrong, than you certainly shouldn't because it violates our conscious.

However, it's not what goes into us that makes us unclean, everything is indeed clean.

 

I think the best witness I can be for people is to be human. I would think drinking in HUGE moderation should be an ok thought. Some of the best conversations I have had with non believers is over a beer sitting on their porch. It makes me feel like I can better relate to them if I am real enough to have A beer with them. Stuffy Christians I think are a huge turn off for me. I would rather see us be the guilty humans we are rather then pretend to be something we are not. Anything done to excess can be bad... but things done in moderation can be ok.

 

I honestly struggled with joining the C&MA because of their ban on drinking. Overall, I think that a denominational ban on it is pure legalism. There is absolutely no biblical command to not drink, and, yes, I think that Jesus set that example for us.

I also find it a little odd that this is such a big issue in the U.S. Most places on earth and in modern history would find it to be a non-issue. Why do we make such a big fuss over drinking?

 

To be clear the C&MA doesn't ban drinking. It does not allow drinking for their pastors in America but it doesn't ban drinking.
I live in Wisconsin drinking is a huge issue because people do not understand moderation. The system in America is flawed but my having a beer and showing people moderation would not change a persons drinking habits, so I choose to abstain.
Plus when you go to bars with drinkers and drink coke it's free when you are driving. So I got that going for me.

 

Yes I drink, and while I'm not openly vocal about it (because why would I be?) some of my kids do know that I drink. They've been to my house, they've seen the beer in the fridge.

What an opportunity to provide a great example of responsible drinking. Teenagers look to us as examples of Jesus, and if they know we drink--and drink responsibly they have that model to look up to and remember when they get to college.

 

Alright, someone's gotta be on the other side of the debate. I'm for drinking! Never thought I would say it quite like that...
but I don't see much wrong with it as long as it's done responsibly...there is much to be debated about here...but I don't really care to bring up the many, various issues....

Just interesting fodder for disussion though, I just read an article about micky rourke and his story. He says that he still meets with his priest and when he goes for confession he doesn't go into the booth, he and the priest go to the priests kitchen and they smoke cigars and drink wine...that's where the real spiritual time happens for him...over cigars and wine. mmmmmmm, I'm out of words on my limit.

 

(Please make debates a statement we can agree or disagree with. It's confusing to agree or disagree with a question.)

I don't think drinking is wrong when done in moderation and when it's never drunkenness, but I personally don't drink. Never have, never will.

 

I agree with the previous two posters and this is something I struggle with because my assistant does drink socially. I have never found the taste to be great or the amount of money to be worth it. I believe when it comes to drinking it is about being dependent on something other than God to make us feel better.

 

You could, wasn't saying that is the only reason. I personally like to ride rollercoasters, love the feeling but I don't do it to feel better or to forget my life. I grew up with an alcoholic father, so I know what it does to you. I have two brothers who have gotten into drinking as well. I have seen the bad side.
I think as ministers we need to be careful what we do because students will and do follow us.

 

But couldn't you make that same application to everything else we do for fun? You can say the same thing about rollercoasters: We ride them because they make us feel good.

 

I agree with pjwong's thoughts above but would add we must look at how it is viewed in society, not just whether we feel it is right or wrong.

Jesus spoke of us not causing others to stumble and it just seems that drinking related issues create more problems and "stumbling" points in a ministry that already can be tough.

While nothing may be "wrong" with it, I believe it is wrong for me.

 

Could you explain stumbling? If someone doesn't like it, or thinks it's wrong and you drink anyway, does that really cause them to stumble? Is that what you're referring to?

 

i dont see anything wrong with drinking socially.. however... i don't because i work with kids.
if i'm telling them not to drink, using the law as an excuse is a very poor one. I ought to practice what i preach... i guess it has something to do with moral authority.

when i was a kid, my dad and uncle told me to do what they say and not what they do.. while smoking cigarettes.... I knew from then on that hypocrisy sucks...

 

"using the law as an excuse is a poor one"??? Do you not drive a car because those under sixteen can't drive...it may tempt them to see you drive.
But I agree, if you PREACH "Don't drink" then you shouldn't be drinking.

 

Don't drink. I don't want our youth to grow up drinking, nor my kids so I don't. To me, anything that can become an addiction or can cause pain, harm or death to someone else should be abstained from by christians especially. The whole "drink responsibly" is just funny to me. As long as you're in your home is nothing off limits? I heard Ron Jeremy talking about porn being helpful to marriages (rekindling a spark). Maybe if done in moderation, but what about when it becomes more...an escape and a haven? Is it allright to cuss as long as it's in moderation? World is full of temptations & I don't need to add any more. I don't shun drinkers, God loves them the way they are, but refuses to leave them that way.

 

leaders in the church think they're being good examples by showing "responsible drinking". It's sad to see how far we as a church have fallen. If I ever knew of my Pastor or my kid's youth pastor drinking, I would resign all positions and move to another church. Once again, I'm not saying I'm better than anyone else, but I don't want bad examples set for my kids. If someone sees you drinking, responsibly or not, that is your example and your witness. One, who is not as "controlled" as you, might not know their limits. Well, then it's their fault...but it was your "witness." I'll go ahead and throw this out there as well, did Jesus drink wine, yes. He also didn't have a home, traveled the streets, spoke truths to whoever would hear (popular or not), and was crucified. How many of those actions have we also taken on?

 

I know that the Bible says drinking in moderation is okay but I like to think? How would i feel if I walked into a bar and I had a beer in my hand, would you honestly think I lead my life as Spiritually as possible? No. If I saw Jesus with a beer I probably wouldn't be a Christian, I would lose my faith that he would drop to our level. So I try to maintain a high level day in and day out.

 

If I walked into a bar and I had a beer in my hand I would just join you. It would make no difference how I saw your Spiritually. I think this is a cultural issue more then spitual

 

This scares me.
You may not realise it but you have pretty much said your standards are higher than Jesus'. That when it comes to alcohol you are holier than he is.
Jesus drank wine, the last supper was with wine.
Drinking alcohol doesn’t make you more or less spiritual.
I'm ok with people saying that they personally don't drink for reasons about selfcontrol and stumbling but to say you wouldn’t trust in Jesus and his work on the cross to save you because he had some alcohol is very arrogant.

 

I don't think you should just because it can affect your witness to others.

 

I disagree because the bible speaks against it. Plus it's bad for people's health. and it gives bad testimony.

 

Apart from getting drunk, which is drinking too much, where does the bible prohibit all alcohol?
I ask this question not as a licence to drink but to help you read your bible better? And when you read your bible better you wont make legalisms which give bad testimony to the gospel of grace.

 

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